Is it really that serious though? (yes it is another post about my relationship views)

                I know y'all are no used to me posting back to back, but I decided that the only way for me to upload in a timely manner was to actually pre-type my post then save and upload them so that's what I am doing. Today, I want to speak about a matter that you all always hear me mention in my various post and that is my relationship status. I know what most of you are thinking and that is "Chrissy, we really don't care, and we are tired of hearing about this." And to this I say you might as well click off while your ahead. Over the past 4 years I have been single and tbh it has not started bothering me until as of lately. It is not the fact that I am single that bothers me, it's the fact that people believe that I am unhappy, because of my singleness. I have various friends tell me "Chrissy, you are always on edge because you need some.." (Let's use our imagination on what they say next). I even had one friend tell me I would probably end up having sex within the first 2 weeks of college. This of course got them cursed out and deep down my feelings were hurt. Many people I know say that I am too emotional, but if I'm being honest I could give less than 2 fucks what people think about my personality, because it is not changing and it is not going any damn where.
                 My problem with the whole relationship shit is that most of my friends have boyfriends, girlfriends or out having sex and talking to someone, which I do not have or am doing any of (I'm still a virgin for those who don't know :) ) Being a virgin is something I am actually really proud of and have not ever regretted at any point of my life. When my friends would say you need sex to make you feel better and relieve some of your stress my answer is how can you miss something you never had? I can't tell you how many times people have tried to make me feel bad about this and honestly no one could make me feel bad about it. I am happy with it and will continue to be satisfied with this until I find someone worth giving my virginity too.
                 A couple of weeks ago I had a friend tell me I wouldn't understand being in a relationship, because I have never been in one. I was furious with the statement at first, but then I realized why the hell should I care if others don't think I know about what being in "love" is like. I am only 18 years old and should not know much about life and I am learning with every step and move I make everyday. So, before you say someonone does not know about love remember that we all are on different journeys and all of them will lead us to love in a different way than others and that's okay. You do not have to rush to find the "one" or have sex because you don't want to be the outcast in your friend group , because it will all happen in due time. Also, don't ever let anyone make you feel bad about being "inexperienced" with love because we all are inexperienced in something and that is what makes us all unique in the first place. You should wake up and thank God everyday that you are alive, and that you are amazingly different then your neighbor, this does not make one better than the other, but gives us the diversity that we need in our society to keep it interesting and fun.
                 It took me awhile to realize that it is okay to be you and be creative, and unique in your own way. Don't let anyone, even your friends take that away from you, because in the end it is you that will lose out because you let them steal your joy. If they can't expect you for you , then they were never your friends to begin with and you should drop them like a bad habit. I have explained to my friends that I do not like those comments and that have stopped making them, because they realize it bothers me and they aren't going to get anywhere by making them because I am going to keep doing me no matter what they say. Your friends are meant to embrace who you are, not try to steal your shine; always remember this.
               My next post will probably be about dating so get ready for that one guys! I am really going to try to stay on top of this so make sure to check all of social media platforms to see when I have uploaded another treat for you all! My @ name for all of my accounts such as twitter, instagram, and snapchat and more is chrissycharisse. Stay Golden!